Bluebear41

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

18+ NSFW

Hope all is well!

I am NOT looking for the following:

NO phishing
NO findom
NO Tributes
NO blackmail
NO c2c

Hi I am here on xHamster because I am kinky haha. I am a “masculine-looking” bear.

Here for mostly chats ONLY - Usually weekdays Mon - Thurs 7am - 3pm availability. I am a Gay sub and do love serving Men so getting on my knees to worship a local cock for a tasty cum dump is welcome from time to time. Prefer Dom Men but just easy going guys that are Queer-friendly that need or want to get off in a Gay subs mouth.

Typically I am bored and lonely during the day and a little depressed so chats and connections helps keep my brain churning and can be stimulatingly enjoyable with the right people. Or hopefully so.

Although I am happy to chat with guys and can role-play either way - happy to chat with women as well and I am chilled about sex and easy going as far as chats go. Nothing is really taboo unless its overly gross or bizarre.....not legal etc.

I live LOUD and openly however, I respect others personal space and privacy but I myself am being OUTED & EXPOSED online on adult sites and blogs so if you would like to know more, help out or just follow my journey as I get OUTED feel free to DM me.

I also have some health issues that limit me in some ways and that has sort of piped into my online persona, depression and so on. Sometimes I make whacky posts that are personally degrading because I have a little self-hate brewing. Trying to work on that. But I don't aim any of my baggage at others. Always chill and respectful.

I am not a slave but am open to being controlled, instructed while on my knees etc. I am also open to being filmed and photographed and posted online etc.

Not looking to hook-up with guys just for the sheer sake of it. For a number of reasons. Most of them fairly obvious. Or should be. But no shame either way. we'd need to chat and make sure it makes sense.

I am looking for the following:

HWP Men
Clean Men (Shower & STI)
NO Musk
Non-Smokers - NO PNP
Trim-Pubes - presentable
Gay-bi or str8

I offer the following:

Cock Worship
Cum Eating & Facials
Film or Photograph me for xHamster or other Adult Platforms
Gay Fore-play - sensual kissing and intimacy
Rimming
Raw Fucking, Ass Play
Piss Play
Discretion and Respect

The Basics:

-Not really looking for a c2c buddy. I am not really into that. I find it kind of lame.
-can meet and chat over cam sessions as needed
-can eat my cum on cam as well for guys that want to film and record me on cam
-Mon-Thurs 7am-3pm
-sex chats or talk about the weather, movies, music or the latest gossip floating around online. (Sex Talk can be: Straight, bi, gay)
-Porn watching: Edging, masturbation, role-play, chat etc
-I am more happy to chat about non-sex subjects but I do realize this is a Porn site lol
-Respect & Discretion Assured
-Meet for suck & fuck
-Gay 4 Play
-YOU HOST or Outdoor-Car etc

Can also connect on other chat platforms. I do have lots of personal photos to share - nudes and underwear and a mix of others. You can share if you want but it is not necessary and I am typically not into seeing other's pics unless you are 'hot' lol. Most of us 'normal' guys are blah at best most days. But I understand people like to share themselves or expose themselves to others sometimes as well so for that reason I allow people to share to appease their own kink and validate them.

Feel free to DM me if you would like to know more.

Otherwise I wish each of you the very best!

Feel free to DM me and let me know what you are thinking or what you would like or need - I am happy to chat with like-minded people. Make friends, network and connect online etc.

My Stats:

Name: Blair
Location: Halifax NS Canada
Born: August 1971 Toronto, Canada
Age: 54yo
Ethnicity: Caucasian
HT: 5'11"
WT: 195lbs
Cut?: Yes
Cock size: 4-5" cut
Orientation: Asexual Open Minded
Identifies: Straight-Heteroflexible
Pronouns: he/him, they/them
Position: NA
Role: NA - versatile for role-play
Body: Average
Hairy: Bear
Toys: NA
Cross-Dress: No
HIV Status: Negative

== Results from bdsm test ==
95% Exhibitionist
94% Experimentalist
80% Voyeur
55% Primal (Prey)
54% Brat
32% Masochist
32% Vanilla
29% Switch

When I want it
Afternoon, Mornings, Weekdays

Where I want it
Online-Cyber-chat

I'm into
3 Way / Groups, Ass Play, Barebacking, Cybersex, Exhibition, Fucking, Jerk Off, Nipple Play, Nudism, Rimming, Role Play, Sucking, Voyeur

I'm seeking
18+ people

I'm turned on by
Dark, long Hair, pony-tails, Cum Eating, Facials, Glory Holes, Lingerie, Photos/Video, Porn, Rubber/PVC, Sports Gear, Suits, Underwear, Uniforms

I'm turned off by
Smokers poor hygiene. Abusive weirdos.....CBT, Pain, extreme, gross things and kinks that are NOT legal etc

Blair
August 2025

"Time is what we want most, but what we use worst.”

"It is not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste a lot of it.”

"Time is the most valuable thing a man can spend."

“When it comes to sex: some men treat women as objects; some women treat objects as men.”

And remember.......

“There are some socks that shouldn't be washed by your mom.

WARNING: If you don't take the 30 seconds to read my profile and proceed with asking questions that are answered here (or if you start making assumptions when the answers are in my profile etc) - I will IGNORE or BLOCK You!